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Simple Living Is About More Than De-Cluttering

Simple living is about more than decluttering

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style&equals;"clear&colon; both&semi;"><&sol;div><&excl;--www&period;crestaproject&period;com Social Button in Content End--><p><em>&OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;This is the essence of simplicity… to live with full awareness and with passion&period;”  &&num;8211&semi; Janet Luhrs&comma; The Simple Living Guide<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We read about simplifying our lives and decluttering and we get inspired to clean out a closet or the junk drawer in the kitchen or&comma; if we’re feeling especially motivated&comma; the garage&period;  We feel great for a few days and feel the relief that the extra space and organization brings&period;  Then we go out and start buying new things to fill the space that we cleared&period;  A year later we have more stuff than when we started&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We read about people who have increased the ease in their lives by simplifying their homes and their days&period;  We make a mental note to implement one or two of the things they’ve done&period;  Then we don’t make any changes&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We wonder why our lives are stressful and filled with busy-ness&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Intentional Living<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Simple living involves much more than keeping our closets and drawers clean&period;  It’s a way of thinking and being&period;  It’s a way of life that we choose for reasons that are important to us&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Simple living means stripping our lives down to the essentials&comma; <a title&equals;"What's The Meaning Of Your Life&quest;" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;simplemindfulness&period;com&sol;whats-the-meaning-of-your-life&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">our core values<&sol;a>&period;  Most people have never taken the time to identify their core values much less reorganize their lives around them&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Normally&comma; we live our lives doing what we think we’re supposed to do&comma; buying the things we’re supposed to have in order to fit in with the groups with which we want to be identified&period;  We’re following the herd without thinking about what <em>we<&sol;em> really want&period;  And we wonder why we’re not happy&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Take a moment to look around your home&comma; consider who you spend time with&comma; how you spend your time and how you spend your money&period;  All of this reflects your values whether you’ve thought about your values or not&period;  Are these the values that you’re proud of or that you want to pass onto your children&quest;  If not&comma; what needs to change&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>All of our choices all day&comma; every day are based on our values&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As you decide how you’ll spend every minute of your day and night&comma; think about your top values&period; Are your actions honoring them&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Notice Your Choices<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>In order to live a simpler life&comma; we need to identify what isn’t supporting our values and let it go&period;  Some things may be hassles that we can easily say goodbye to&period;  Other things may feel like obligations that we have to maintain to make others happy&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The important part is slowing down to <a title&equals;"Create Your Best Year Ever&colon; One Conscious Choice At A Time" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;simplemindfulness&period;com&sol;create-your-best-year&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">notice all the little choices<&sol;a> we make all day&comma; every day&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>If your family is one of your top values&comma; can your family feel that&quest;  Have you asked them&quest;  How do you treat them&quest;  How much time do you spend with them&quest;  How focused is that time&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>If you value your health&comma; do you think about how everything you put in your mouth will affect you&quest;  Do you listen to your body and give it the exercise and nourishment it needs&quest;  Or are you too busy to think about it and follow your same daily habits that allow you to feel &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;good enough” instead of &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;great&quest;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Every time you spend money realize that you’re exchanging your life energy for something&period;  How will that something give you energy in return&quest;  Does it provide a short term fix or does it support your values and the simpler lifestyle you’re working toward&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>A New Way To Live<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Living a simpler life changes our mindset&comma; how we see ourselves and how we see the world&period;  It’s a hell of a lot more than keeping our desks and closets clean&period;  It’s intentional living – making conscious choices about what to include and what to keep out based on our highest values&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>By slowing down and focusing on our values&comma; we have the time and space to enjoy more and express gratitude&period;  It allows us the space to get out of our crazy&comma; self-focused world and open ourselves more fully to other people and experiences&period;  We allow ourselves to feel content with what we have and how the world is&period;  It allows us to experience a fuller&comma; happier life&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Less is more&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><em>Simple Steps<&sol;em><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<ul>&NewLine;<li>Write down your three highest values&period;  What are the three most important things you want your life to revolve around&quest;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Examine your life as it is&period;  Write out everything you do each day&comma; who you spend time with&comma; how you spend your money&comma; where you live and anything else you can think of&period;  How does it support your values&quest;  How does it run counter to those values&quest;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Go through everything you wrote and cross out what doesn’t support your values and what you wouldn’t want in your happier life&period;  Drop the guilt and obligations and focus on what makes <em>you<&sol;em> happy&period;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Write what you would like to add to your life to more fully support your values&period;  Where will these fit into your new life&quest;  This exercise might be easier if you do it on a computer so you can easily move things around&period;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Identify one small thing you can do to move yourself closer to your happier&comma; simpler life&period;  Change your diet one meal at a time&period;  Bow out of a group that’s no longer serving you&period;  Start walking more&period;  Spend less time with people who suck your energy&period;  Clean out a cluttered area in your life – physically or emotionally&period;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Each time you make a change toward your new life&comma; stop and reflect on how you feel&period;  Is it helping or do you need to change it a bit&quest;<&sol;li>&NewLine;<li>Every day make a 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