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It’s Never Too Late – Change Is Always Possible

It’s Never Too Late – Change Is Always Possible

<&excl;--www&period;crestaproject&period;com Social Button in Content Start--><div id&equals;"crestashareiconincontent" class&equals;"cresta-share-icon fourth&lowbar;style"><div class&equals;"sbutton crestaShadow facebook-cresta-share" id&equals;"facebook-cresta-c"><a rel&equals;"nofollow" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;facebook&period;com&sol;sharer&period;php&quest;u&equals;https&percnt;3A&percnt;2F&percnt;2Fwww&period;simplemindfulness&period;com&percnt;2Fits-never-too-late&percnt;2F&amp&semi;t&equals;It&percnt;E2&percnt;80&percnt;99s&plus;Never&plus;Too&plus;Late&plus;&percnt;E2&percnt;80&percnt;93&plus;Change&plus;Is&plus;Always&plus;Possible" title&equals;"Share on Facebook" onclick&equals;"window&period;open&lpar;this&period;href&comma;'targetWindow'&comma;'toolbars&equals;0&comma;location&equals;0&comma;status&equals;0&comma;menubar&equals;0&comma;scrollbars&equals;1&comma;resizable&equals;1&comma;width&equals;640&comma;height&equals;320&comma;left&equals;200&comma;top&equals;200'&rpar;&semi;return false&semi;"><i class&equals;"cs c-icon-cresta-facebook"><&sol;i><&sol;a><&sol;div><div class&equals;"sbutton crestaShadow twitter-cresta-share classic-icon" id&equals;"twitter-cresta-c"><a rel&equals;"nofollow" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;twitter&period;com&sol;intent&sol;tweet&quest;text&equals;It&percnt;E2&percnt;80&percnt;99s&plus;Never&plus;Too&plus;Late&plus;&percnt;E2&percnt;80&percnt;93&plus;Change&plus;Is&plus;Always&plus;Possible&amp&semi;url&equals;https&percnt;3A&percnt;2F&percnt;2Fwww&period;simplemindfulness&period;com&percnt;2Fits-never-too-late&percnt;2F&amp&semi;via&equals;SimpleMindfulns" title&equals;"Share on Twitter" onclick&equals;"window&period;open&lpar;this&period;href&comma;'targetWindow'&comma;'toolbars&equals;0&comma;location&equals;0&comma;status&equals;0&comma;menubar&equals;0&comma;scrollbars&equals;1&comma;resizable&equals;1&comma;width&equals;640&comma;height&equals;320&comma;left&equals;200&comma;top&equals;200'&rpar;&semi;return false&semi;"><i class&equals;"cs c-icon-cresta-twitter"><&sol;i><&sol;a><&sol;div><div class&equals;"sbutton crestaShadow linkedin-cresta-share" id&equals;"linkedin-cresta-c"><a rel&equals;"nofollow" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;linkedin&period;com&sol;shareArticle&quest;mini&equals;true&amp&semi;url&equals;https&percnt;3A&percnt;2F&percnt;2Fwww&period;simplemindfulness&period;com&percnt;2Fits-never-too-late&percnt;2F&amp&semi;title&equals;It&percnt;E2&percnt;80&percnt;99s&plus;Never&plus;Too&plus;Late&plus;&percnt;E2&percnt;80&percnt;93&plus;Change&plus;Is&plus;Always&plus;Possible&amp&semi;source&equals;https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;simplemindfulness&period;com&sol;" title&equals;"Share to LinkedIn" onclick&equals;"window&period;open&lpar;this&period;href&comma;'targetWindow'&comma;'toolbars&equals;0&comma;location&equals;0&comma;status&equals;0&comma;menubar&equals;0&comma;scrollbars&equals;1&comma;resizable&equals;1&comma;width&equals;640&comma;height&equals;320&comma;left&equals;200&comma;top&equals;200'&rpar;&semi;return false&semi;"><i class&equals;"cs c-icon-cresta-linkedin"><&sol;i><&sol;a><&sol;div><div class&equals;"sbutton crestaShadow pinterest-cresta-share" id&equals;"pinterest-cresta-c"><a rel&equals;"nofollow" href&equals;"javascript&colon;void&lpar;&lpar;function&lpar;&rpar;&percnt;7Bvar&percnt;20e&equals;document&period;createElement&lpar;&apos&semi;script&apos&semi;&rpar;&semi;e&period;setAttribute&lpar;&apos&semi;type&apos&semi;&comma;&apos&semi;text&sol;javascript&apos&semi;&rpar;&semi;e&period;setAttribute&lpar;&apos&semi;charset&apos&semi;&comma;&apos&semi;UTF-8&apos&semi;&rpar;&semi;e&period;setAttribute&lpar;&apos&semi;src&apos&semi;&comma;&apos&semi;https&colon;&sol;&sol;assets&period;pinterest&period;com&sol;js&sol;pinmarklet&period;js&quest;r&equals;&apos&semi;&plus;Math&period;random&lpar;&rpar;&ast;99999999&rpar;&semi;document&period;body&period;appendChild&lpar;e&rpar;&percnt;7D&rpar;&lpar;&rpar;&rpar;&semi;" title&equals;"Share on Pinterest"><i class&equals;"cs c-icon-cresta-pinterest"><&sol;i><&sol;a><&sol;div><div style&equals;"clear&colon; both&semi;"><&sol;div><&sol;div><div style&equals;"clear&colon; both&semi;"><&sol;div><&excl;--www&period;crestaproject&period;com Social Button in Content End--><blockquote><p><em>&&num;8220&semi;The only difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is extraordinary determination&period;&&num;8221&semi; ~Mary Kay Ash<&sol;em><&sol;p><&sol;blockquote>&NewLine;<p>I was recently perusing the <a title&equals;"Simple Mindfulness archives" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;simplemindfulness&period;com&sol;archives&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Archives page<&sol;a> of my site&comma; reflecting on the evolution of my adventures online&period;  For the first year and two months of my blog’s existence&comma; I was blogging in the wind&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>My subscriber list hung at about 50 people&comma; most of whom I’m sure weren’t reading my posts&period;  I had between zero and maybe three comments per post&period;  My post titles were pretty weak and my writing left something to be desired&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Most people give up after about three months of results like this&period;  Why did I keep going&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Because I felt like I had something to say and that I was destined to impact many people’s lives&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I kept learning and practicing and trying different things&period;  I <em>knew<&sol;em> it would work&period;  I persisted&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I get a bit miffed when I hear people say that they can’t change course&comma; learn new things&comma; change careers&comma; follow their passions or make much of any change in their life because they think they’re too old or it’s too late&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The only time it’s too late is when you’re dead&period;  If you’re reading this then I’m betting that you’re not there yet so – <em>it’s not too late&period;<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As I mentioned <a title&equals;"My Beliefs Have Hijacked My Brain" href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;simplemindfulness&period;com&sol;my-beliefs-have-hijacked-my-brain&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">in my last post<&sol;a>&comma; it all depends on what you choose to believe is possible for you&period;  Here’s some background on what it took for me to get this site off the ground&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>The Techie Stuff – It’s Not That Hard<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Before I started my site&comma; I knew nothing about websites&period;  I didn’t even know what a blog was&period;  Although I’m a fairly competent person in the technical world&comma; I thought putting together a site was over my head so I looked for people to do it for me&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>After doing some research&comma; I found that hiring someone would go way beyond the tiny budget I had for this&period;  Obviously&comma; I didn’t let this stop me&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I just needed to know the first few steps to start things myself&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I bought a program called <a title&equals;"Monetize Your Passion - free book" href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;easywebautomation&period;com&sol;app&sol;&quest;Clk&equals;3990486" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Monetize Your Passion<&sol;a> that laid out those steps&period; Then I actually <em>read<&sol;em> the whole program – twice&period;  Then I did what about 2&percnt; of people who buy programs do – <strong>I took action<&sol;strong> and did what the program laid out&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>At first&comma; things were confusing&period;  I made mistakes and learned from them&period;  I didn’t let the mistakes stop me&period;  I was stepping into a brave&comma; new world that I knew nothing about so mistakes were &lpar;and still are&rpar; inevitable&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In addition to learning the technical side of blogging&comma; I also had to learn how to write&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>But I’m Not a Writer &&num;8211&semi; Yet<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Unfortunately&comma; ever since I was a kid&comma; I held the belief that I couldn’t write&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>When my brother and I were young&comma; we would make hand-made cards for birthday’s&comma; Mother’s and Father’s days and any other special days&period;  We would pull out our big pad of colored construction paper and create cards by cutting out and gluing designs&comma; drawing and coloring&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We tried to be witty by writing a clever poem on the inside&period;  Of course&comma; as kids&comma; we thought that poems had to rhyme&period; My brother was pretty good at coming up with great poems&period;  He was the writer&period;  We both agreed that my designs were better than his so I was the artist&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We would both laugh so hard we cried when we read my poems because we both thought they were so bad&period;  I was <em>not<&sol;em> the writer&period;  Little did I know that this belief would be branded in my subconscious for another forty years&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Before starting my site&comma; I never had a reason to learn to write creatively&period;  Knowing that writing to help others was one of my purposes in life&comma; I now had a very strong reason&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I started where I was and simply began writing&period;  Looking back&comma; my early writing kind of sucked&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>But I kept writing and reading and learning and getting better&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>At this point&comma; I had a blog and I was writing every week&period;  Why weren’t people flocking to my site&quest;  Because I wasn’t telling anyone that I was out there&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Can Anybody Hear Me&quest; – Marketing Yourself<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>When I started&comma; I imported my 350 contacts from Outlook and emailed them my weekly posts&period;  Many people unsubscribed&period; When I figured out how to see my &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;open rate” &lpar;how many people actually open those emails&rpar;&comma; I was appalled&period;  Almost no one was reading my emails&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I had grand visions that those 350 people would read everything I sent them and tell their friends and my list would grow&period;  Silly&comma; silly me&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Once again&comma; I had to overcome a couple more beliefs in order to move forward&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I was an accounting major in college and hated the one marketing class that I had to take&period;  I never thought I would ever use the information&period;  Never say never&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I also held the misguided belief that sales was a slimy process and I would never have to do it&period; &lbrack;Side note&colon;  I HIGHLY recommend <a title&equals;"To Sell Is Human" href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;ow&period;ly&sol;j3w2X" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Daniel Pink’s new book&comma; To Sell Is Human<&sol;a>&period; You’ll learn why we’re all in sales&comma; regardless of your job title&period;&rsqb;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>One of my first steps in marketing myself was to comment on the blogs I had been reading&period;  This helped me to become a part of the communities that others were building&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Then I was invited to participate in a group where we all shared each other’s posts on our social networks&period;  This helped immensely on many different levels&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Many new readers learned about my site and&comma; more importantly&comma; I made new connections &&num;8211&semi; new friends&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We shared our communities as well as our knowledge&period;  If we had questions or technical issues&comma; the group was there for us&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I learned that sales and marketing – done the right way – can be fun&period;  I learned that no one can benefit from your messages without some sales and marketing to get the word out&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I also learned that sales and marketing are art forms that require constant learning and practice – just like everything else we want to improve&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>Putting the Pieces Together<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>I’ve simplified the story of my online journey in an effort to make a point&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>If you want something badly enough – even if it’s something you know nothing about and you have no idea where to start – all you have to do is take the first step&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Change is possible anytime&comma; anywhere&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Believe that you can do it&period;  You don’t have to know how&period;  You just have to <em>know<&sol;em> that it’s possible for you&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>And you have to <strong>take action<&sol;strong>&period;  Take the first step&period;  Fall down&period;  Learn&period;  Take another step&period;  And another&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Each step builds on the last&period;  Make sure you somehow record all the little steps you take&period;  Reflect on them and how far they’ve taken you&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Celebrate your progress&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Acknowledge your awesomeness&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I <em>know<&sol;em> you can do it&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Now&comma; go do it&excl;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><em>What step will you take today toward something you used to think was out of your reach&quest;<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><em>Awesome resource&colon;<&sol;em><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p>I recently reviewed Brendan Baker’s <a title&equals;"Change Your Life program" href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;paigepaige&period;starthappy&period;hop&period;clickbank&period;net&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Launch Your Life program<&sol;a> and I honestly have to say that it’s one of the best programs I’ve seen for changing direction in your life&period;  It combines the most important exercises and practices necessary to create your own&comma; unique&comma; amazing life&period;  Even at 182 pages&comma; there’s no fluff here – only focused information that&comma; if you give yourself the time to work through it all&comma; will completely transform your life&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>This isn’t just some goal setting exercise&period;  It delves into values&comma; beliefs and habits which are all critical in making life changes&period;  The program looks at where you’ve been&comma; where you are now&comma; where you want to go and helps you to understand your big &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;why” that underlies it all&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I highly recommend investing in yourself and the amazing life locked inside of you by taking advantage of Brendan’s opportunity to <a title&equals;"Change Your Life program" href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;paigepaige&period;starthappy&period;hop&period;clickbank&period;net&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">Launch Your Life<&sol;a>&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h3><em><strong>Check out my latest guest posts&excl;<&sol;strong><&sol;em><&sol;h3>&NewLine;<p><strong>A Daring Adventure&colon;<&sol;strong>  <a title&equals;"If I Can Do Something Crazy Like This&comma; You Can Too&excl;" href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;adaringadventure&period;com&sol;guest-posts&sol;if-i-can-do-something-crazy-like-this-you-can-too&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">If I Can Do Something Crazy Like This&comma; You Can Too<&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Many people feel trapped in their 9 to 5&comma; thinking there is no way to escape&comma; but I explain that welcoming failure as feedback and knowing your core values can mean otherwise&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p><strong>Get Motivation&colon;<&sol;strong>  <a title&equals;"What’s Your Why&quest;" href&equals;"http&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;getmotivation&period;com&sol;motivationblog&sol;2013&sol;03&sol;whats-your-why&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">What’s Your Why&quest;<&sol;a><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Do you have a hard time getting <em>and staying<&sol;em> motivated toward your goals and dreams&quest;  There are certain things you have to get clear about before starting a new habit&comma; 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