<!--www.crestaproject.com Social Button in Content Start--><div id="crestashareiconincontent" class="cresta-share-icon fourth_style"><div class="sbutton crestaShadow facebook-cresta-share" id="facebook-cresta-c"><a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.simplemindfulness.com%2Fhow-technology-is-rewiring-our-brains-and-why-we-need-to-unplug%2F&;t=How+Technology+Is+Rewiring+Our+Brains+and+Why+We+Need+to+Unplug" title="Share on Facebook" onclick="window.open(this.href,'targetWindow','toolbars=0,location=0,status=0,menubar=0,scrollbars=1,resizable=1,width=640,height=320,left=200,top=200');return false;"><i class="cs c-icon-cresta-facebook"></i></a></div><div class="sbutton crestaShadow twitter-cresta-share classic-icon" id="twitter-cresta-c"><a rel="nofollow" href="https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=How+Technology+Is+Rewiring+Our+Brains+and+Why+We+Need+to+Unplug&;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.simplemindfulness.com%2Fhow-technology-is-rewiring-our-brains-and-why-we-need-to-unplug%2F&;via=SimpleMindfulns" title="Share on Twitter" onclick="window.open(this.href,'targetWindow','toolbars=0,location=0,status=0,menubar=0,scrollbars=1,resizable=1,width=640,height=320,left=200,top=200');return false;"><i class="cs c-icon-cresta-twitter"></i></a></div><div class="sbutton crestaShadow linkedin-cresta-share" id="linkedin-cresta-c"><a rel="nofollow" href="https://www.linkedin.com/shareArticle?mini=true&;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.simplemindfulness.com%2Fhow-technology-is-rewiring-our-brains-and-why-we-need-to-unplug%2F&;title=How+Technology+Is+Rewiring+Our+Brains+and+Why+We+Need+to+Unplug&;source=https://www.simplemindfulness.com/" title="Share to LinkedIn" onclick="window.open(this.href,'targetWindow','toolbars=0,location=0,status=0,menubar=0,scrollbars=1,resizable=1,width=640,height=320,left=200,top=200');return false;"><i class="cs c-icon-cresta-linkedin"></i></a></div><div class="sbutton crestaShadow pinterest-cresta-share" id="pinterest-cresta-c"><a rel="nofollow" href="javascript:void((function()%7Bvar%20e=document.createElement(&apos;script&apos;);e.setAttribute(&apos;type&apos;,&apos;text/javascript&apos;);e.setAttribute(&apos;charset&apos;,&apos;UTF-8&apos;);e.setAttribute(&apos;src&apos;,&apos;https://assets.pinterest.com/js/pinmarklet.js?r=&apos;+Math.random()*99999999);document.body.appendChild(e)%7D)());" title="Share on Pinterest"><i class="cs c-icon-cresta-pinterest"></i></a></div><div style="clear: both;"></div></div><div style="clear: both;"></div><!--www.crestaproject.com Social Button in Content End--><p>I’m probably like most people who carry their smartphone around with them everywhere, checking something on it many times a day.</p>
<p>We need to be needed, and all those notifications make us feel needed. Emails, social media updates, texts, reminders – they never stop.</p>
<p>But what if they did stop? What if there wasn’t anything to check? How would you feel?</p>
<p>My mindfulness practice has helped me to shine a light on the effects of <a href="https://www.simplemindfulness.com/finding-balance/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">technology on my life</a>.</p>
<p>Since I have an office job, I spend a good part of my day at my desk in front of my computer with my phone nearby.</p>
<p>After checking something on my phone one day, I noticed how my brow furrowed and my face automatically tensed up while I was doing anything on my phone. As soon as I put it down, my brow relaxed and I opened up to what was in front of me.</p>
<p>I also noticed how I mentally blocked out almost everything around me when I was checking my phone. It was as if nothing (and no one) else existed. I was prioritizing whatever I was looking at on my phone.</p>
<p>After having a few of these revelations, I started to wonder what else I was missing in life.</p>
<p>While my conscious, logical mind reminded me that nothing on my phone was more important than what was happening in “real life,” my subconscious mind said, “Yeah, but look at your phone and check, just in case.”</p>
<h2>The Joys of Being Unplugged</h2>
<p>Last Sunday, the weather was beautiful. All too often, I’m busy on the weekends cooking for my family and spending a lot of time on the never-ending list of cleaning chores necessary in a house full of kids and animals.</p>
<p>My six year old daughter, using her innate wisdom, informed everyone that we were going to have a picnic that day. She pestered me incessantly until I helped her gather the snacks and blanket to make the picnic happen. I was so happy that she did.</p>
<p>We live in the woods and have a beautiful little picnic spot in the rock formations next to our house. We all hiked up to our spot and laid out the picnic, enjoying the food, sun and all being together.</p>
<p>Around the time the kids got up to play on the rocks, I noticed a visceral need to check some bit of technology. It felt like something in my gut was pulling me back to the house to check my phone or something.</p>
<p>When my conscious self noticed that feeling, I laughed. I knew that there was absolutely nothing more important at that moment than being there with and for my family, <a href="https://www.simplemindfulness.com/worklife-balance-is-a-myth/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">enjoying the moment</a>. But I still felt the pull.</p>
<p>After our picnic, we walked over to a field where we play touch football. Since there are five of us, I usually watch from the sidelines, getting water or anything else that the other players need.</p>
<p>Standing on the sidelines, I felt the urge again. And I laughed at myself again. I did a little focused relaxation on my gut and my thoughts. Then I brought myself back to the moment, standing in the sun on a warm, gorgeous day, having fun with my family.</p>
<p>After these experiences, I resolved not to check my phone, computer or iPad for the rest of the day.</p>
<p>In doing that, I could be fully present to the joy of a Sunday afternoon at home with my family.</p>
<p>I relaxed on the sofa, reading and hanging out with my husband. I played games with my kids and invited them to help me cook dinner, which they love to do.</p>
<p>The more times I noticed the urge to check a device and pushed the urge aside, the easier it was to relax into the joy of the moment.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.simplemindfulness.com/calm-free-course" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><img class="aligncenter wp-image-5556 size-full" src="https://media.simplemindfulness.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/31102543/Calm-Free-course-2.jpg" alt="Calm &; Free Course" width="600" height="200" /></a></p>
<h2>The Monkey Mind Returns</h2>
<p>The next weekend I had some work that had to get done before Monday morning. On Saturday, my husband took the kids to run some errands so I could stay home and get my work done. I finished the important things but left a few items that could wait until Monday.</p>
<p>On Sunday, I knew that resting, being unplugged for the day and taking care of myself were exactly what I needed in order to have enough energy for the upcoming week.</p>
<p>But I felt that tug, my monkey mind telling me that I should sneak into my office while my husband was busy and get one more thing done on my computer.</p>
<p>My monkey mind tries to convince me that it will lessen my stress if I get a little more done every day, even the days when I know that resting is a wiser choice. Sometimes the monkey wins, but I’m learning how to tame him.</p>
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<h2>The Power of Commitment</h2>
<p>When I felt the tug to secretly work on Sunday, the concept of commitment popped into my head. I learned the true value of commitment about six years ago when I used it to save my marriage.</p>
<p>When you <a href="https://www.simplemindfulness.com/amazing-life/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">commit to something</a>, you’re either in or you’re out. There’s no 99% commitment. There’s no “I’ll commit until it stops working for me.” You either do it or you don’t.</p>
<p>At that point, I realized that I wasn’t committing to caring for myself. By allowing that tug to work, I realized that I hadn’t committed to resting. In that moment, I said to myself, “I am fully committed to resting and doing whatever my body tells me it needs today.”</p>
<p>A wave of relaxation washed over me. The tug disappeared. I could fully enjoy the book I was reading and the cozy feeling of sitting on the sofa with my tea – at least until one of my kids needed me for something.</p>
<p>I realized that I needed to make more commitments to myself to do the things I know are best for me, whether that’s relaxing and being unplugged at least one day each weekend or saying no to distractions at work and focusing on an important project.</p>
<p>In my busy life, I doubt I would have been able to make these revelations and choices without my mindfulness practice. It’s one of those “simple but not always easy” daily habits developed over time that reminds me to stop and notice what’s going on in my body.</p>
<p>When I listen, I can hear the whisper of my True Self telling me what’s going on inside me and what I need in that moment. The more I take the time to listen, the easier it is to hear Her voice.</p>
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<h2>Simple Steps</h2>
<p>If you feel like you can’t live without your phone, try it for a day. Trust me, everything will be there waiting for you the next day. The world won’t implode if you don’t respond to everyone and everything the same day.</p>
<ol>
<li>Choose one day each week when unplugging makes the most sense for you. I choose Sunday’s because no one is expecting any work from me, and I’m home with my family.</li>
<li>Turn off (don’t just silence) all of your electronic devices, and hide them in a room you’re unlikely to visit that day. Out of sight, out of mind.</li>
<li>Make a plan for what you’ll do that day. Ideally, this is a great day for simply being with very little doing. Unplugging allows your mind and nerves to rest. Choose to spend your time in ways that support this purpose.</li>
<li>Commit to your plan. Make a commitment to yourself to do nothing but your plan and anything else that supports the purpose of taking care of you.</li>
<li>Do whatever you planned. Read, take a hot bath, treat yourself to a massage, take a long walk, spend time with people who make you feel great and genuinely you, go out on an adventure and explore your external environment or your internal one with journaling, sit in nature, meditate, watch a great movie or two – whatever helps you to unwind and reconnect with yourself.</li>
<li>At the end of the day, smile, inside and out, while you reflect on a day of reconnecting with yourself.</li>
<li>Make your plan for next week. It’s proven that anticipating something you enjoy helps you to enjoy it even more and helps you to feel happier for a longer period of time with the anticipation.</li>
</ol>
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How Technology Is Rewiring Our Brains and Why We Need to Unplug
