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Giving Away Your Best: How to Make Sure Good Things Come Your Way

Giving Away Your Best: How to Make Sure Good Things Come Your Way

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style&equals;"clear&colon; both&semi;"><&sol;div><&excl;--www&period;crestaproject&period;com Social Button in Content End--><p>When you have a great idea for something you can create&comma; what are some of the first few questions you ask yourself&quest;  How much money can I make with this&quest;  How many people will buy it&quest;  How many people can I positively impact with this&quest;  And then your mind starts to figure out how to package it and get it out there to be sold&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>What if you packaged up your best ideas and gave them away&quest;  The voice in your head &lpar;your <a href&equals;"https&colon;&sol;&sol;www&period;simplemindfulness&period;com&sol;scare-your-monkey-mind&sol;" target&equals;"&lowbar;blank" rel&equals;"noopener">monkey mind<&sol;a>&rpar; might go a bit crazy and start asking things like&colon;  What&quest;&quest;&quest;  Are you crazy&quest;  Just <em>give<&sol;em> them away&quest;  My creations have real value&excl;  What about licensing&quest;  What about copyrights&quest;  What if somebody <em>steals<&sol;em> my idea and makes more money than me&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>My answer to all that would be&colon;  So what&quest;  In the grand scheme of things &lpar;and especially in the world of personal development&rpar;&comma; there haven’t been too many truly original ideas in a couple thousand years&period;  Most of what is out there is just different people’s versions of the same things&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>What is ownership&quest;<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>Society has programmed us that the only way to be successful is to legally &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;own” ideas so others can’t &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;steal” them&period;  When you think about it&comma; that’s a pretty crazy concept&period;  Like Nike owning &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Just do it&period;”  Everyone uses the phrase&comma; whether they know that Nike owns it or not&period;  And technically&comma; Nike could somehow make you pay for saying or writing it&period;  Crazy&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Well&comma; the times they are a-changin&&num;8217&semi;&period;  Collaboration is replacing competition&period;  Sharing is replacing strict ownership&period;  It’s becoming quite evident that the parts of the whole do much better by working together instead of competing against each other&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In our society&comma; so much time&comma; energy&comma; money and emotion are wasted on &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;protecting our own&period;”  This way of thinking is predicated on there only being a limited amount of whatever it is&comma; like money&period;  A scarcity mentality&period;  In truth&comma; there’s an unlimited supply of almost everything&period;  For example&comma; while there’s definitely a limited supply of oil&comma; there’s an unlimited supply of energy in a variety of other forms&period;  You just have to think about it a little differently&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>So&comma; back to giving your stuff away&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>The benefits of giving<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>What if you created something awesome and just gave it away to as many people as possible&quest;  You would certainly impact many more people than you could if you sold it&period;  The people who really liked it could come back to you for more and you could charge for the more &lpar;hey&comma; we all have to eat&comma; don’t we&quest;&rpar;&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>What comes up inside you when you even think about giving away your best ideas&quest;  For me&comma; it’s feelings of scarcity&comma; fear&comma; need to protect and hoard&period;  Thoughts like&colon;  &&num;8220&semi;Wait&excl;  I should charge for that&excl;&&num;8221&semi;  But when I think about the good that sharing those ideas can create&comma; I want to give them away&period;  As soon as I look past myself&comma; I start to ask&comma; &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Why <em>not<&sol;em> give them away&quest;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I’m making it a practice to overcome those feelings of scarcity and giving anyway&period;  It’s definitely not always easy but the more I do it&comma; the better I feel&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<h2>A simple challenge<&sol;h2>&NewLine;<p>I challenge you this week to give away something special to you&period;  Whether it’s a thing or an idea&comma; it has to be something meaningful to you&period;  If it’s an idea&comma; tell your friends or others in your networking groups&period;  Post it on your blog or someone else’s&period;  Put it on your Facebook page or tweet about it&period;  Post a video of it on YouTube&period;  If it’s a thing&comma; give it to a friend or loved one&period;  Donate it to Goodwill&period;  List it on Freecycle&period;org&period;  Just give&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>If you can make this a regular practice&comma; you’ll start to understand the magic it can create in your life&period;  I have a reminder on my calendar to &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;Give something away” every month&period;  Some months it’s something small&period;  Other months it’s a couple carloads of things&period;  Each week I hope I give something of value on my blog&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Yes&comma; I could sell all of these things but I choose not to&period;  I feel better when I give it away&period;  While it’s certainly not the reason I do it&comma; I know that what goes around comes around&period;  You get what you give&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Get past the feelings of scarcity and know that there is always plenty&period;  Pay it forward&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>What will you give away this week&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>&nbsp&semi;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<&excl;--www&period;crestaproject&period;com Social Button in Content Start--><div id&equals;"crestashareiconincontent" class&equals;"cresta-share-icon fourth&lowbar;style"><div class&equals;"sbutton crestaShadow facebook-cresta-share" id&equals;"facebook-cresta-c"><a rel&equals;"nofollow" 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