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<p>You learn about people who lead amazing lives, doing things they love every day, living outside the norms of society. Your True Self excitedly says, “Wow! I wish I could do that!” Then your monkey mind throws a wet towel on the idea and says with a grimacing tone, “Yeah, right. Who do you think you are? You could never do anything like that.” And you go forth, believing your monkey mind, stuffing down your excitement and passions.</p>
<p>It doesn’t have to be that way. You have choices, and you can choose not to listen to the monkey mind who will do anything to maintain the status quo because it thinks the status quo is safe.</p>
<p>How do you get from where you are to that amazing life you’d love to live?</p>
<h2>1) Reflect on what is and isn’t working in your life and visualize your perfect life.</h2>
<p>Whether or not you know what your amazing life looks like, take some time to reflect on all aspects of your life: health, money, relationships, career, spirituality and your mind.</p>
<p><a title="What Does Success Look Like To You?" href="https://www.simplemindfulness.com/success/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">What do you love?</a> What would you love to get rid of or change? What kinds of things are a must in your life?</p>
<p>Put together all the ‘must’s’ and ‘love’s’ and hand-write on paper how your perfect day would roll out for you. Where are you? Who are you with? What time do you get up and how do you feel when you wake up? What do you do first? What do you eat for breakfast? Then what? Unfold the day minute by minute, feeling how you would feel.</p>
<p>Keep what you’ve written in a prominent place so you can see it and get a touch of that feeling every day.</p>
<h2>2) Identify your top 3 values.</h2>
<p>In order to live<em> your</em> amazing life, you must live <a title="Simple Living Is About More Than De-Cluttering" href="https://www.simplemindfulness.com/simple-living/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">your own authentic life</a>. Rich and famous might feel good for a short while, but, if you’re not living your core values in the process, it won’t make you happy for long.</p>
<p>In order to live your authentic life, you’ll need to identify your core values. What’s the most important thing in the world to you? What do you value so much that it couldn’t change over the course of your life?</p>
<p>We’re not talking about money, careers, the perfect partner or anything outside of you. We’re talking about <em>who you are</em>.</p>
<p>If you think of people and things outside of you, ask yourself what feelings those things bring to you. Keep asking, “What does that get you?” until you can’t go any deeper. That’s your core value.</p>
<p>Values are things like health, integrity, happiness, freedom, peace, love, connection, commitment, community, gratitude, passion. You can find examples by Googling “list of values.”</p>
<p>Once you identify your core values, every future decision you make will be much easier. If a choice conflicts with or doesn’t support your values, it will eventually drive you crazy. Working for a fat paycheck at a company whose culture conflicts with your values won’t last very long (been there, done that).</p>
<h2>3) Don’t accept mediocrity for the rest of your life.</h2>
<p>Don’t delude yourself into thinking that you can’t change what you’re doing because you’ve <a title="Are You Letting Your Past Dictate Your Future?" href="https://www.simplemindfulness.com/you-now-have-permission-to-waste-your-prior-life/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">invested too much</a> time or money into it. Those are sunk costs and there’s nothing you can do about them.</p>
<p>Every day you have the opportunity to make a new choice and new investments.</p>
<p>I know doctors and lawyers who ended long careers because they couldn’t take it anymore. Now they’re incredibly happy as artists, photographers, writers or alternative care practitioners.</p>
<p>What you did yesterday doesn’t have to dictate what you do today or tomorrow. Don’t listen to the people who say, “Why would you give that up? You have so much vested in it. Why just throw it all away?” The reality is that you’ll be throwing your happiness away for the next 20, 40 or 60 years if you don’t make a change now. That’s a long time.</p>
<p>Don’t accept the mediocrity you’ve chosen in the past. Don’t worry about making other people happy (they’re probably not working to make you happy, are they?).</p>
<p>Make a new choice right now to start going after <em>your</em> fabulous, new life.</p>
<h2>4) Never let your ego believe that you’re too good or too big for anything.</h2>
<p>Maybe you’re one of those doctors, lawyers or other professionals who think they couldn’t possibly follow their passion because it would be beneath them. They worked so hard to climb so high on the ladder, they couldn’t see themselves slipping down, even though the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall.</p>
<p>Years ago I was on the <a title="About Paige - My Story" href="https://www.simplemindfulness.com/about-2/about-paige/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">fast track to making partner</a> at a large, international firm. When I was about a year away from jumping through that hoop, I had the revelation that I couldn’t possibly live like that for the rest of my life. I had no idea what I was supposed to do or be but I knew that wasn’t it. So I jumped. I jumped off the proverbial cliff and my wings opened wide and I soared.</p>
<p>In my two years of searching for my purpose, I waited tables, mucked horse stalls, cleaned rooms and cooked at a dude ranch. I trained horses and worked for a small school as a bookkeeper. Never in a million years could I have imagined myself doing those things as I was sitting in my 17th floor office in my suit. But they were some of the most amazing and enlightening experiences of my life.</p>
<p>Through those experiences, I learned who I was and what was important to me. I started to put the pieces together for what I wanted my perfect life to look like. Then I set about creating it, one day and one action at a time.</p>
<h2>5) There’s magic in serendipity and happiness when you let go of plans and stop trying to control things.</h2>
<p>In my corporate days, I had daily, weekly, annual, five year, and twenty year goals and plans. I felt completely in control. I was pretty uncomfortable with “going with the flow.”</p>
<p>But my intuition showed me a much better way, when I decided to listen to it.</p>
<p>As I said before, I knew where I didn’t want to be but I didn’t know where I wanted to be. By being open to whatever came next and listening to my intuition, I found the magic of being in the moment and allowing serendipity guide me.</p>
<p>It took a while but I learned to stop trying to plan and control everything. My experiences were showing me that the Universe had a much better plan for me than anything I could have dreamed up.</p>
<p>Over the years I’ve learned that I can control very little – only my own thoughts and actions. Most people see things the opposite way – they can somehow control the people and things around them but their thoughts and actions are merely reactions to those surroundings. That’s a recipe for a lifetime of frustration, anxiety, and stress.</p>
<p>By trading in specific goals for general intentions (i.e. how you want to feel or generally how you want your life to be), life gets much easier and happier and tons more fun!</p>
<h2>6) When your intuition speaks, LISTEN and ACT on it.</h2>
<p>You’re taught to ignore the “voices in your head,” the nudges you can’t explain, the feelings that try to guide you. You’re taught that your logical, thinking mind is smarter. And that usually leads you down the wrong path <em>for you</em>.</p>
<p>Your intuition knows what you need and will guide you in that direction, if you listen. Hearing the whispers of your intuition can take some practice. It’s a matter of being open and not assuming that your logical mind has all the answers.</p>
<p>When you get a feeling or a message that you feel that you need to follow, follow it and see where it leads you. If you don’t follow it, those feelings and messages will get stronger and you’ll either end up following them anyway, or you’ll be miserable and possibly sick while you keep them stuffed down.</p>
<h2>7) Be open to anything.</h2>
<p>As I mentioned before, your monkey mind will screech and go crazy trying to keep you “safe” in your status quo. Your logical mind will tell you that it knows best. Unfortunately, these parts of you will never be as wise as your intuition or your True Self.</p>
<p>In order to follow the whispers of your intuition, you’ll need to be open to them. That’s where the magic happens. When you follow the whispers, you’ll step into new experiences and adventures that you could never have dreamed up for yourself.</p>
<p>By being open and accepting whatever comes, you’ll learn to surf the waves of life instead of being beaten by them. When you remain open, with the curious attitude of, “Oh boy! I can’t wait to see what’s next!” life becomes a fun adventure.</p>
<h2>8) Know that you can handle anything life throws your way.</h2>
<p>Being open to anything means experiences that you may interpret as “good” or “bad.” How you choose to interpret them is up to you. Choose wisely as your choice can determine how you’ll feel. Do you want to feel good or bad?</p>
<p>No matter how challenging a situation might be, the Universe will never deal you more than you can handle. It’s like the old saying: What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.</p>
<p>I like to believe that everything happens for a reason. Every situation can offer a lesson, a little “aha!” moment if you look deeply into yourself.</p>
<p>Each experience you encounter is part of your evolution. It makes you who you’re becoming.</p>
<h2>9) Life is a series of experiences and experiments that only have the meaning you give them.</h2>
<p>I’ve often heard that the point of life is to live, love and learn. Doesn’t sound like there’s an end or a point to that, eh? And that’s exactly the point.</p>
<p>Life is a series of experiences where we can live life to the fullest, learn and share what we learn along the way and spread the endless love that’s part of our nature with everyone around us.</p>
<p>Failure (and most negative emotions) only exists when you set expectations and those expectations aren’t met. Why not let go of expectations and be present to the gifts that arrive along the way?</p>
<p>Instead of worrying about failing, look at new experiences as experiments from which you can learn valuable life lessons – or simply have fun!</p>
<p>Have you always wanted to write a book? Then make a little time each day to start writing. Maybe you’ll discover that it’s not as exciting as you thought and you’d rather not pursue the idea. Lesson learned. Time to move on to your next idea. Or maybe you love it and write ten books. You won’t know until you make the time to start and remain open to how you feel along the way.</p>
<h2>10) Keep stepping out of your comfort zone and having more amazing experiences.</h2>
<p>If you want your life to be more than it is today, <em>you</em> have to be more than you are today. You have to think, feel and act differently. That means getting out of your comfort zone and doing something that feels uncomfortable on a regular basis.</p>
<p>The more you do this, the easier it gets (I speak from experience). Years ago, meeting new people and trying new things scared the crap out of me. Now I look forward to both with an eagerness to make a new friend, learn something new, share a part of myself, open my eyes or someone else’s to new possibilities and generally make my life more amazing.</p>
<p>When the opportunity arises to take a baby step out of your comfort zone today, take it. What’s the worst that could happen? If it isn’t yours or someone else’s death, it’s not that bad.</p>
<p>Life is short – too short. You have options. It’s your job to live your own life to the fullest on your own terms, not anyone else’s.</p>
<p>I’ve learned that living my own amazing life isn’t selfish at all. Quite the opposite. The more I experience and learn, the more passionate I become about life. And that passion spreads like the flame of a candle. Other people see what’s possible and light up. Then other flames of passion are ignited.</p>
<p>What step can you take today to move a little closer to your own amazing life?</p>
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10 Steps To Create Your Amazing Life
